I think someone posted my Yahoo name on a bathroom

stall door in Africa. I have been getting a rash of Im's that all seem related.
1. They all start their Im's by buzzing first. I hate that, you don't know me so anything you have to say to me isn't that important. I think I'm just gonna hit ignore with the first buzz from now on
2. They all have homes in Maryland but travel a lot and don't get to spend much time there. When asked where in Maryland they never answer.
3. They either have a son or daughter or niece or nephew they are raising because their wife died and left them the child to care for. The child is always going to school in Africa.
4. Their profiles don't have a pic but after a bit they send one to you that looks like it was ripped from a magazine.
And best of all they are in construction and/or a contractor or a pilot. The funny thing is they never spell construction correctly.
I usually put them on ignore before they ask me for money to get home and have come to a conclusion about the internet. I will probably never meet anyone on the internet that interests me because I don't want another slug like the last one. I wanna do things and people that do things don't hang out on the internet...They are out doing things.